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Children Acquire Attachment Disorder When Not Nurtured With Adequate Care
0Counted among the serious child behavior problems, an attachment disorder is based on the concept of affection or an unconditional bond shared by an infant with his parents or care giver. And when he does not receive that utmost care and attention, he becomes the victim of an attachment disorder. Due to the absence of essential parenting skills, some parents are incapable of fulfilling the basic physical and emotional needs of their children. They are ignorant towards pampering them with care and affection and children are not mature enough to understand the situation. Hence, they incur a sense of detachment and avoid coming in close contact with closed ones. In addition, they stop forming intimate relationships with any person.
Also known as a reactive attachment disorder, an attachment disorder can also take place when a child is separated from his first care giver. Due to sudden circumstances, the child may be moved in the hands of another care giver with whom he cannot form that same trustworthy bond. Children get attached to that person who has been nurturing them right from their birth and if by chance, they have to leave that care giver, the situation becomes painful for them. Consequently, they lose the ability to trust anyone and get engaged intimately due to the fear of losing him. An attachment disorder grows with their maturing age and shows its complete effect when they attain the age of five or six.
This behavior disorder makes a child listless and he is an underachiever. In addition, poor cause-and-effect thinking ability, no interest in playing exciting child games, remaining passive, lack of empathy for other people, maintaining poor eye contact especially when lying, and abnormal speech patterns are some of the major symptoms of an attachment disorder. Ultimately, it poses a great barrier in the path of his cognitive progress as he is influenced by an ill psychological pattern.
A child suffering from an attachment disorder may also get engulfed by an oppositional defiant disorder wherein he shows disrespectfulness or disobedience towards parents or senior figures like teachers. Defiant children are stubborn and go against rules or regulations at home, school, or any other place. They are always ready to enter into arguments with parents or teachers and deliberately annoy people. Moreover, they dominate others and blame people even for their own mistakes. They are ready to take revenge and filled with malicious feeling for others. Such a negative behavioral pattern restricts their mental growth and development and moreover, it impacts their personal, school, and social life. Therefore, parents must remain vigilant and nurture the needs of their infants suitably in order to prevent the occurrence of an attachment disorder, which in turn can lead to oppositional defiance. However, if they discover such undesirable symptoms in their children, they must consult a psychologist at the earliest.
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Neuro Linguistic Programming – a great Parenting Skill to acquire in modern times
0The author is a successful marketing executive and a mother of two boys. She has had a rough ride in the past two years and has successfully saved her family from the brink of disaster by working on her parenting techniques. You can access her free report “New Parenting Style” or buy her book “Solving Teenage Problems” on http://www.teenageproblems.newparentingstyle.com or check your “Parent Stress Intensity Quotient” for free on http://www.stressmanagement.newparentingstyle.com.
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